Decoding Mixed Signals: When Marriage Feels Like Paperwork
The Situation
"He says marriage is just paperwork but won't stop teasing me with hints"
The Brutal Truth
He's downplaying marriage to avoid commitment while taunting you with hints. It signals emotional unavailability and mixed messages. This behavior keeps you dangling without a clear commitment, creating confusion and insecurity in the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after reassurance or try to convince him to change his mind about marriage, believing they can earn his commitment. This is dangerous because it fosters dependency instead of recognizing their own worth and the need for clear intentions.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to prioritize dating someone whose intentions match your relationship goals?
✨ What To Do Next
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