Why Dismissing Your Concerns Is a Major Red Flag in Relationships
The Situation
"He dismisses my concerns and says I'm overreacting"
The Brutal Truth
He's invalidating your feelings and making you feel crazy for voicing your concerns. This dismissive behavior shows he doesn’t respect or care for your emotional needs, indicating a lack of maturity and emotional availability.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to minimize their own feelings to appease him, fearing confrontation. This is wrong because it compromises your self-worth and leads to resentment and unhealthy patterns.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to prioritize your emotional needs and set boundaries without fear of rejection?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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