Understanding Distance in Long-Distance Relationships
The Situation
"She's been distant since we went long distance"
The Brutal Truth
Her distance means she may be emotionally checked out or unsure about the relationship. This often signals commitment issues or a lack of communication, showing she's not invested in maintaining the connection.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start overthinking, seeking excessive reassurance or making demands for clarity, which can create pressure and push them further away. This approach is wrong because it ignores personal boundaries and healthy communication.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What do you need to feel secure in a relationship, and how can you communicate that effectively to your partner?
✨ What To Do Next
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