Signs He’s Distant Since Going Long Distance: Red Flags
The Situation
"He's distant since we went long distance"
The Brutal Truth
His distance since the long-distance transition indicates he's checked out emotionally. He may not have been fully invested to begin with, or he struggles with commitment. Either way, it reveals a lack of effort and consideration for your feelings.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might double down on communication, flooding him with messages to understand his feelings, and seeking reassurance. This is wrong because it puts pressure on him and undermines your self-worth, showing you're willing to chase validation instead of recognizing your value.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about my worth if I feel I need to chase after someone who is emotionally distant?
✨ What To Do Next
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