Understanding Double Texting: What It Means for Your Relationship
The Situation
"He double texts everyone else but takes days to reply to me"
The Brutal Truth
His double texting is a clear indicator that he’s not prioritizing you. If he can’t be bothered to reply promptly, it signals that you don’t hold the same importance in his life as others do. You deserve better than being an afterthought.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze his delays or flood him with messages to gain attention, believing that constant communication ensures connection. This only reinforces his perception that you're not secure in your worth and pushes him further away.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If your best friend shared this experience with you, what advice would you give her about valuing herself?
✨ What To Do Next
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