Why You Shouldn't Settle for Drunken Calls: Understanding Mixed Signals
The Situation
"She only calls when she's drunk after partying"
The Brutal Truth
This behavior screams emotional unavailability. She doesn’t want to engage when sober, meaning you’re just an afterthought when she’s looking for a distraction, not a partner. Don’t mistake her drunken calls for genuine interest; it’s a red flag of commitment issues.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling tighter, interpreting these calls as moments of connection. This is misguided; it only reinforces unhealthy dynamics and feeds into seeking validation from someone who is emotionally detached.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you deserve to be a backup plan rather than a priority?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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