Why Getting Dumped Before a Trip Is a Major Red Flag
The Situation
"She dumps me before her annual girls trip"
The Brutal Truth
Her dumping you before a trip shows she prioritized her freedom over investment in the relationship. It means she likely felt suffocated or uncertain, limiting her willingness to commit. Don't chase someone who doesn’t see your worth!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsess over why she dumped him, constantly replaying their interactions, hoping to prove that it was a mistake. This is wrong because it undermines his self-worth and attachment, leading to further dependency on her approval instead of focusing on his own needs.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does this situation reveal to me about my non-negotiables in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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