Emotional Cheating: Understanding the Red Flags in Relationships
The Situation
"She's emotionally cheating with her ex"
The Brutal Truth
She's emotionally invested in her ex, which shows she isn't fully committed to you. This is a major betrayal that signals she's using you as a placeholder while keeping her heart tethered to someone else.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to convince her of their worth or compete for her affection, believing if they just try harder, they'll win her loyalty. This is toxic and rooted in insecurity, as it won't change her feelings or commitment level.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How can I prioritize my own emotional safety and recognize the signs that I deserve a partner who is wholly present?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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