He's Emotionally Unavailable: What It Means for Your Dating Life
The Situation
"He never opens up about anything personal"
The Brutal Truth
His reluctance to share personal details reflects emotional unavailability. He may be protecting himself, lacking trust, or simply uninterested in a deeper connection. If he can’t open up, he’s not ready for a relationship that requires vulnerability and intimacy.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might constantly probe for information, seeking validation through reassurance. This behavior is unhealthy as it may push him further away, reinforcing his avoidance and making the anxiety cycle worse.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to prioritize dating someone who openly shares their thoughts and feelings?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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