Why Excuses Signal His Lack of Commitment in Relationships
The Situation
"He said he'll move to be with me but keeps making excuses"
The Brutal Truth
His promises to move are just empty words. The excuses he makes show he isn’t serious about a future with you; he wants to keep you around without actually committing. This is manipulative behavior disguised as uncertainty.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to persuade him to commit by showering him with affection or reassurance, thinking it will change his mind. This is wrong because it places your value on his promises instead of recognizing when someone isn’t meeting your needs.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would you say to your best friend if she were in your shoes?
✨ What To Do Next
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