Why Expecting You to Do All the Chores is a Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"He expects me to do all house chores because I work from home"
The Brutal Truth
He thinks your remote work means you’re available to do all the household chores, showing a lack of respect for your time and effort. This is a sign of entitlement and unwillingness to share responsibilities fairly.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to comply, thinking that this will keep the peace or earn his affection. But that only reinforces toxic dynamics and disregards their own needs and boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to share responsibilities in a way that honors both your time and worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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