Why Expecting Expensive Gifts Without Reciprocation is Toxic
The Situation
"She expects expensive gifts but never reciprocates"
The Brutal Truth
She’s using you for gifts and affection without valuing your contributions. This one-sided dynamic shows a lack of respect for you and what you give to the relationship, indicating potential manipulation and entitlement.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try harder to please her by showering her with gifts, hoping that'll earn her affection. This is misguided; it only reinforces the toxic pattern and undermines your self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would healthy reciprocity look like in your relationships, and how can you better advocate for your worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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