Red Flags: Expecting Mind Reading in Dating
The Situation
"She expects me to read her mind and plan everything"
The Brutal Truth
His irritation shows a lack of emotional maturity and accountability. He’s unwilling to communicate clearly and expects you to guess his needs. This is a classic setup for frustration and toxic dynamics.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-apologize or try harder to predict his needs, ignoring their own. This reinforces unhealthy patterns and keeps you stuck in a cycle of guessing and disappointment.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to set so that my feelings and needs are prioritized in my relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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