Family Demands Weekly Dinners: Boundaries or Control?
The Situation
"His family demands weekly dinners and gets offended if I miss one"
The Brutal Truth
His family’s demands reveal a need for control over your time and priorities. They prioritize their feelings over your autonomy, showing a lack of respect for your choices and boundaries. This dynamic can quickly become suffocating.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to always attend and suppress their own needs, rationalizing that it's easier to please the family than address the issue. This undermines their self-worth and reinforces unhealthy patterns.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How can you prioritize your own needs and establish boundaries without feeling guilty?
✨ What To Do Next
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