Why Fear of Setting Boundaries in Dating Could Signal Trouble
The Situation
"I'm scared to set boundaries because she might leave"
The Brutal Truth
This person is using fear to manipulate you. They want you to abandon your needs for theirs, creating a dynamic where your self-worth is dependent on them sticking around. It's emotional blackmail, plain and simple.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to appease him by avoiding confrontation and suppressing their own needs, which only reinforces unhealthy patterns. This is wrong because it undermines their self-worth and keeps them stuck in a toxic cycle.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to prioritize your own needs and desires in a relationship, regardless of the outcome?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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