Why Did He Ghost Me After We Slept Together?
The Situation
"He ghosted me after we slept together"
The Brutal Truth
His ghosting after intimacy shows he’s emotionally unavailable and lacks respect for you. It’s a classic sign of someone who uses physical connections to avoid vulnerability, leaving you feeling discarded once he gets what he wants. You deserved better.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might reach out multiple times, seeking closure or answers, but this only reinforces his disrespect and perpetuates your feelings of inadequacy. You don’t need to chase someone who chose to disappear.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What might it reveal about your self-worth if you hadn’t gotten caught up in someone else’s inconsistency?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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