Why Ghosting and Dating Apps Spell Red Flags
The Situation
"He ghosted me then I saw him on a dating app"
The Brutal Truth
He ghosted you because he isn't interested in being consistent or honest. Seeing him back on a dating app means he wanted options, and you're not one of them. His actions show he’s emotionally unavailable, and you deserve better than that.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might reach out multiple times, seeking closure or an explanation, thinking they can change his mind. This is the wrong move because it shows a lack of self-respect and gives him power over your feelings.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of your worth might be tied to someone else's interest in you?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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