Why Ghosting After Three Months of Dating Hurts (And How to Handle It)
The Situation
"He ghosted me after three months of dating"
The Brutal Truth
He ghosted you because he wasn’t invested or emotionally mature enough to communicate his feelings. His lack of respect for your time and emotional well-being shows a commitment issue. You're worth being pursued, and he clearly wasn't ready for that.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsessively reach out, seeking closure or answers, which only prolongs the hurt. This approach feeds insecurity and further diminishes their self-worth. It's crucial to recognize that his silence speaks volumes; chasing after someone who isn't interested is not self-loving behavior.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What patterns do I notice in my dating life that reveal a tendency to settle for inconsistent behavior?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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