Is He Moving Too Fast Physically While Claiming to Take It Slow?
The Situation
"He said he wants to take things slow but moves really fast physically"
The Brutal Truth
He’s communicating one thing but acting in a way that contradicts it. This indicates manipulation or confusion on his part. His insistence on taking things slow is likely a tactic to maintain control while pursuing physical intimacy.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling to him, hoping to clarify his intentions or win his approval, which can lead to losing sight of their own boundaries. This only perpetuates the cycle of uncertainty and disempowerment.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about your self-worth if you’re willing to overlook mixed signals in hopes of validation?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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