He Proposed While Drunk Then Said It Didn't Count: What It Means
The Situation
"He proposed while drunk then said it didn't count"
The Brutal Truth
His drunken proposal was a moment of impulse, showing a lack of genuine commitment. By dismissing it as 'not counting', he's minimizing your feelings, indicating emotional unavailability and inconsistency. This is a clear sign he’s not ready for a serious relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overlook this behavior, rationalizing it as a misunderstanding and staying in the relationship. This is wrong because it fosters a pattern of accepting less than you deserve and ignoring your own feelings and needs.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does this situation reveal about what you truly want in a partner and what you're willing to accept?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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