Understanding Why He Pulls Away When Things Are Good
The Situation
"He pulls away when things are going well"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior screams emotional unavailability. He's comfortable until vulnerability increases, then he retreats. This indicates fear of intimacy, and may lead you to question your worth when you should be questioning his actions. Ensure you prioritize partners willing to engage fully.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may overanalyze every interaction and obsessively reach out for reassurance. This only fuels his fear of intimacy and further creates distance. Instead, focus on your own needs and set boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to be with someone who consistently shows up when you need them?
✨ What To Do Next
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