Why Saying He’ll Visit But Not Making Plans is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He said he'll visit but never makes plans"
The Brutal Truth
He’s playing with your emotions and wasting your time. His excuses show a lack of genuine interest or commitment. You’re being strung along, and his words don’t match his actions.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might keep hoping and texting him to check if he's still coming, clinging to any small hint, believing that if they just show enough interest, he'll step up. This is wrong because it undermines your self-worth and allows his inaction to dictate your feelings.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If your best friend told you this story, what would you tell her?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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