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Why He Watches Your Stories But Ignores Your Texts: A Red Flag

🚨Red FlagToxicity Score: 7/10
#breadcrumbing#mixed-signals#emotional-unavailability#texting-behavior

The Situation

"He watches all my stories but doesn't reply to my texts"

The Brutal Truth

He's interested enough to check you out online but not committed enough to engage with you directly. His behavior screams emotional unavailability and lack of respect for your time and feelings. He's breadcrumbing, keeping you hanging without genuine investment.

❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)

An anxious person may start overanalyzing every detail, sending multiple follow-up texts or making excuses for his behavior. This only invites more confusion and reinforces unhealthy patterns instead of demanding the clarity and respect they deserve.

đź’­ Something to Reflect On

What does it say about your self-worth if you are willing to chase someone who clearly isn't investing in you?

✨ What To Do Next

Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.

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You don't have to figure this out alone. Let's work together to help you trust yourself, set boundaries, and attract the love you deserve.

Mariana - Relationship Coach

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