Why Is She Taking Forever to Reply but Always Active Online?
The Situation
"She takes hours to respond but is always posting on social media"
The Brutal Truth
She’s not prioritizing you. While she’s posting on social media, it’s clear you’re not a priority in her life right now. This mixed-signaling is a red flag—it shows a lack of respect and genuine interest in developing the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start double texting or over-analyzing her social media to seek reassurance. This is wrong because it undermines their self-worth and encourages unhealthy patterns of chasing someone who isn't fully invested.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to only invest in relationships that reciprocate your effort?
✨ What To Do Next
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