What It Means When He Works Night Shifts and You're Left Waiting
The Situation
"He works night shifts and I never see him"
The Brutal Truth
He's prioritizing his job over your relationship and using his schedule as an excuse to avoid intimacy. This indicates significant emotional unavailability and a lack of commitment to building a real connection with you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may try to compensate by constantly texting him or making excuses for his behavior, hoping to elicit a response. This is wrong because it reinforces unhealthy patterns and neglects their own worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What are my non-negotiables in a relationship, and am I currently settling for less?
✨ What To Do Next
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