He's Not Ready to Date Yet Takes You on Dates: What It Means
The Situation
"He said he's not ready to date but takes me on dates"
The Brutal Truth
His words say he's not ready, but his actions scream confusion and mixed signals. He enjoys spending time with you without committing, playing with your emotions while keeping his options open. This is a classic case of emotional unavailability.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling harder, trying to prove their worth or win him over. They may overanalyze every interaction, convincing themselves that if they just did something differently, he’d change his mind. This behavior is toxic because it fosters dependency on someone who is not fully invested.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What about this situation makes you feel like you need to prove your worth to someone who can't even commit?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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