Discovering Hidden Credit Cards: A Major Red Flag
The Situation
"He keeps secret credit cards I only found by accident"
The Brutal Truth
He’s hiding financial secrets from you, indicating a lack of trust and transparency in the relationship. This not only points to potential dishonesty but shows he's comfortable keeping important things away from you, which is a serious breach of intimacy.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to confront him immediately or downplay their feelings to avoid conflict. This is wrong because it dismisses your own intuition and leads to potential further disrespect of personal boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do you think you deserve in a relationship when it comes to honesty and transparency?
✨ What To Do Next
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