Why Hiding Travel Plans Signals Serious Trust Issues in Dating
The Situation
"She hides her travel plans so I can't surprise her"
The Brutal Truth
He’s trying to control the narrative by keeping you in the dark about travel plans. This indicates a lack of trust and respect for your autonomy. It’s manipulation disguised as romance, and shows he values his plans over your feelings.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel the need to confront him repeatedly or constantly check his social media for clues. This is unhealthy—it erodes your self-worth and only breeds insecurity. You should be demanding transparency, not fishing for crumbs.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of me feels unworthy of clear communication and respect in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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