Why Holding a Ring with No Commitment is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He carries the ring but says the timing isn't right for months"
The Brutal Truth
He has a ring and yet stalls for months, which indicates he's unsure, possibly stringing you along without genuine commitment. He's avoiding taking responsibility and might not view the relationship as serious.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start pressuring him for answers or reassurance, believing that staying in the conversation will somehow change his mind. This is the wrong move because it may lead to more confusion and reinforce his hesitation.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
If you could only be with someone who actively pursued commitment, what would that feel like for you?
✨ What To Do Next
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