Why Inviting Friends Over Without Asking is a Major Red Flag
The Situation
"He invites friends to stay over without asking me"
The Brutal Truth
He prioritizes his social life over your comfort, disrespecting your home and your boundaries. This behavior shows a lack of consideration for your feelings and an inability to communicate about shared spaces. You're not a priority, and that's a huge problem.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may over-apologize, try to please him, or play it cool to avoid conflict. This is wrong because it signals to him that your comfort is secondary to maintaining the connection instead of holding him accountable for his inconsiderate actions.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to establish to feel valued in my relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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