Is He Serious? Signs of Emotional Unavailability in Dating
The Situation
"He posts other girls on his story but says we're exclusive"
The Brutal Truth
His actions scream confusion and disrespect. Posting other girls while claiming exclusivity shows he lacks commitment and is keeping his options open. This is a classic case of mixed signals that threatens your self-worth.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
You might feel tempted to confront him, seeking reassurance and validation. This is wrong because it places your worth in someone else's hands, allowing doubt and anxiety to cloud your judgment.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What does it say about your self-worth if you're accepting mixed messages as love?
✨ What To Do Next
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