Understanding the Warning Signs of Jealousy in Relationships
The Situation
"He gets upset when I spend time with my friends"
The Brutal Truth
His jealousy over your friends shows he has control issues and lacks trust. Rather than supporting your social life, he’s trying to isolate you, which is a major red flag. Healthy love promotes independence, not demands.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to appease him by limiting time with friends or over-explaining their actions, which reinforces unhealthy dependence. This is wrong because it sacrifices personal needs for his insecurities.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do you need to set to ensure you have the freedom to maintain your friendships?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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