Why Being Threatened by Your Partner's Friends is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She's threatened by my female friends"
The Brutal Truth
He feels insecure and controlling. Instead of addressing his own jealousy, he's projecting his insecurities onto you and trying to limit your relationships. This is not love; it's possessiveness masquerading as concern.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-apologize or limit their own friendships to appease their partner, believing that doing so will reduce conflict. This is harmful because it sacrifices your worth and autonomy.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do you need to establish to feel secure in your friendships and relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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