Navigating Jealousy in Dating: Signs of Emotional Manipulation
The Situation
"He said social media doesn't matter but gets upset when I post with other guys"
The Brutal Truth
He’s saying social media doesn’t matter to keep you calm, but his jealousy shows he wants control over your interactions. It's a major red flag indicating insecurity and possessiveness.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might apologize for posting with other guys, internalizing that it was a mistake. This reinforces insecurity and miscommunication. Instead, recognize it's his issue, not yours.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How would my self-worth change if I let go of the need to validate him and prioritized my own feelings instead?
✨ What To Do Next
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