Understanding Jealousy Without Commitment in Dating
The Situation
"He gets jealous when I talk to other guys but won't commit"
The Brutal Truth
He’s trying to control your interactions while avoiding the responsibility of commitment. This is a classic case of someone wanting the benefits of a relationship without any real investment—he's insecure and selfish.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to appease him by limiting their interactions with others or consistently seeking his approval. This is unwise because it goes against your self-worth and sends the message that you should suppress your social life for his comfort.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do you truly need from a partner that makes you feel valued and secure?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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