Why Keeping Ex's Pictures Indicates Emotional Unavailability
The Situation
"He said he's over his ex but still has her pictures up"
The Brutal Truth
His claim of being over his ex is empty; still having her pictures shows unresolved feelings and lack of commitment. He’s juggling past attachments while dating you, which means you’re not his priority.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsessively analyze every interaction or text, seeking reassurance from him to validate their fears. This only feeds insecurity and diminishes self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you feels like you should compete with his past for validation?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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