Why Keeping Your Relationships a Secret is a Major Red Flag
The Situation
"She worries what her friends think and keeps me a secret"
The Brutal Truth
She's embarrassed or unsure about her feelings, leading her to hide you from her friends. This secrecy suggests a lack of commitment and self-worth, as she values external opinions over building a genuine connection with you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overthink their worth and try to impress her friends or prove their value, which only perpetuates insecurity. This avoids the real issue – her lack of commitment.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you is willing to compromise your visibility in someone's life for their approval?
✨ What To Do Next
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