Why Keeping the Engagement Ring at Mom's House Signals Commitment Issues
The Situation
"He keeps the ring at his mom's house so he won't feel pressured"
The Brutal Truth
He’s avoiding commitment by keeping the ring at his mom’s house. This tells you he’s not ready to take the next step and uses excuses to avoid pressure. It's a clear sign of emotional unavailability.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overly analyze his statements, wondering if he doesn't truly want to marry, leading to self-doubt and further attachment to his uncertainty. This spirals and can push them to validate by staying in a less-than-ideal situation.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only date someone who openly communicates their intentions and desires?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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