Understanding Late Night Texts: What Mixed Signals Mean
The Situation
"She texts me late at night but ignores me during the day"
The Brutal Truth
She’s playing with your attention. Texting late at night means she wants something casual but ignoring you all day shows she’s not invested in your emotional needs. You’re a convenience, not a priority.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might repeatedly text her during the day, seeking reassurance or clarification. This not only pushes her away but reveals a lack of respect for their own worth and boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would my day-to-day life look like if I only invested in relationships that honored my time and needs?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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