What It Means When They Say They Like You But Won't Commit
The Situation
"She said she likes me but won't commit to being exclusive"
The Brutal Truth
She likes you, but doesn’t want to put in the effort or commitment. This is a clear sign of emotional unavailability and fear of intimacy. If she truly valued you, she'd be willing to define the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may pressure her for labels or attempt to 'prove' their worth to win her over. This approach is flawed because it often leads to chasing someone who isn't ready for deeper commitment.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it mean for you to prioritize your own needs and only pursue someone who wants the same level of commitment you do?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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