Why His Long-Distance Behavior Makes You Question His Commitment
The Situation
"He acts single because we're long distance"
The Brutal Truth
His actions scream: 'I'm not serious about us!' You're just a backup while he keeps his options open. Long-distance is an excuse for him to play the field, not a real commitment.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might double down, over-analyzing every text and reaching out excessively to seek validation. This only pushes him further away and shows a lack of trust in your own worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to prioritize your own needs over the uncertainties he brings?
✨ What To Do Next
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