How to Recognize Manipulation in Your Relationships
The Situation
"He rewrites my traditions to make them more comfortable for him"
The Brutal Truth
He’s prioritizing his comfort over your traditions, indicating a lack of respect for what’s important to you. This is a clear sign he’s trying to reshape the relationship to suit his needs, which often leads to emotional manipulation.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to accommodate him or downplay their own values, thinking that if they change themselves, they'll gain his approval. This is a destructive pattern that erodes self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do you need to set to ensure your values and traditions are respected in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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