When He Says He Wants Marriage Someday But Not With You
The Situation
"He said he wants marriage someday but not with me"
The Brutal Truth
He’s giving you just enough hope without any real commitment. This is his way of keeping you around without investing in a future together. It’s manipulation, not love. You deserve someone who sees a future with YOU, not just the idea of marriage.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling tighter, trying to prove their worth or convince him to change his mind. This only reaffirms his lack of genuine interest and can lead to further emotional pain. You should stand firm in your worth instead.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to prioritize your own vision of a fulfilling future, rather than waiting for someone else's approval?
✨ What To Do Next
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