Why Meeting Family Without Commitment is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He wants me to meet his family but won't define what we are"
The Brutal Truth
He’s either not serious about you or enjoying the thrill of keeping you uncertain. Meeting his family without defining the relationship is a power play. He’s not ready for a commitment but wants to keep you around as an option.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to agree to meet his family, hoping it will solidify the relationship. This move is a trap—if he won’t commit verbally, meeting his family won’t change that.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about your worth if you feel the need to prove yourself through relationship milestones?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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