Signs He's Not Serious About Getting Help: Mental Health Red Flags
The Situation
"He said he'll get help for his mental health but never does"
The Brutal Truth
His promise to get help is just empty words. He lacks accountability and isn't ready to face his issues. You're stuck in a cycle of hope with someone who isn't committed to change or growth, keeping you emotionally drained and unfulfilled.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might stay to 'support' him, convincing themselves they can change him or that their love will be enough. This is not only unhealthy but perpetuates your denial of your own needs and self-worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
If your best friend told you this story, what would you tell her?
✨ What To Do Next
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