When He Says He Misses You but Won't See You: Red Flags
The Situation
"He said he misses me but won't make time to see me"
The Brutal Truth
His words are empty. He likes the idea of you but isn't genuinely invested. Missing you without action shows emotional unavailability and disrespect for your time. You're being strung along while he enjoys the comfort of your presence without commitment.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might bombard him with messages or excuses to understand why he isn't making time. This is wrong because it continues to place your worth in his hands, rather than recognizing that your time and feelings deserve respect.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you must chase someone who expresses interest with no action?
✨ What To Do Next
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