Understanding Mixed Signals: Baby Fever and Panic in Dating
The Situation
"He jokes about baby fever but panics when I schedule doctor visits"
The Brutal Truth
He’s making jokes to deflect from serious conversations while simultaneously showing he’s not ready for commitment or future planning. His panic over appointments reveals fear of responsibility, contradicting his playful remarks. This is confusion at its finest.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase him for reassurance, asking repeatedly about his feelings towards babies and their future together. This is wrong because it places the onus on you to seek validation, rather than him taking responsibility for his mixed signals.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would a healthy conversation about future goals look like for you, and who would you want to have it with?
✨ What To Do Next
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