Understanding Mixed Signals: She's Always Posting but Too Busy to Text
The Situation
"She's always on her phone posting but says she's too busy to text me"
The Brutal Truth
Her actions scream priorities. If she's glued to her phone for social media but claims to be too busy for you, it's a red flag showing she's not interested or truly invested. It’s time to recognize your worth and stop chasing this crumbs.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overanalyze the situation, desperately trying to prove their worth through extra effort, such as texting more or making excuses for her behavior. This is wrong because it signals a lack of self-respect and can lead to unhealthy attachment.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of my story leads me to tolerate mixed signals and unreciprocated effort from others?
✨ What To Do Next
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