Understanding Mixed Signals: When Someone Says They Need Space but Dates Others
The Situation
"She said she needs to find herself but is already dating someone else"
The Brutal Truth
She’s emotionally unavailable and using 'finding herself' as an excuse to avoid commitment while seeking validation elsewhere. This is classic mixed signals and shows a lack of respect for both you and her current partner.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to prove their worth by waiting around or competing for her attention, hoping to change her mind. This is misguided and ensures you remain stuck in unhealthy dynamics.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How would I feel if I prioritized my needs and focused on someone who values emotional availability?
✨ What To Do Next
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