Understanding Mixed Signals in Dating: "I Miss You but I’m Too Busy"
The Situation
"He said he misses me but is too busy to see me"
The Brutal Truth
His words say he misses you, but his actions scream he's not prioritizing you. It’s a classic case of mixed signals. If he wanted to see you, he would carve out time. His busyness is an excuse, not a reason.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling harder, trying to prove their worth or guilt him into making time. This approach often pushes him further away, reinforcing feelings of inadequacy and desperation.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If someone you loved received this message, what advice would you give them about their worth and what they deserve?
✨ What To Do Next
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